Sunday, January 8, 2012

Tandem Bathing

Sean Ryan and Aidan even gave knuckles in the tub!
It was so cute.
 The boys were so excited to jump in - especially Aidan.  He's never had a bath partner before.  He literally was squealing with delight.
Too fun!
 So happy!
 My teething boy.
Sean loves the toys!
 The paparazzi.
All six of us were in our little bathroom.
Four of us had cameras.
Two were being photographed.
Aidan slowly slid toward Sean Ryan, crowding him out!
 Clean hair!
Cute hairstyles.

So I was so sad earlier this week because I wasn't sure when I'd see our Cali friends again - or meet their new baby.  But I just prayed and thanked the LORD for the ways He has provided for us to see and be encouraged by seminary friends every 6 months..and the very next day, we found out that Brian's cousin will be getting married in September.  Where?  Santa Barbara.  We are very very happy for Betsy and so excited to have Corey join the family.  And an added bonus?  We'll be visiting San Diego friends too!  God is good - He truly takes care of His saints.

Saturday, January 7, 2012

My Constant Battle

I heart Jerry Bridges like I heart the Tripp brothers.
Recently, I've been reading Bridges' The Practice of Godliness.  He encourages believers to put on the new self (Ephesians 4:20-24) - humility, contentment, thankfulness, joy, holiness, faithfulness, etc.  It is all so so good, but I especially enjoyed the contentment chapter.  "Contentment is one of the most distinguishing traits of a godly person" (pg 85).  I hate that it is still my constant struggle.  After devouring Lydia Brownback's Contentment and William Barcley's The Secret of Contentment, I thought I was fairly well educated in the contentment department.  But my heart still skips a beat and, if I'm not careful, tears well up in my eyes when I see SoCal friends write on Facebook, "It's 80 degrees in January - I'm so glad I live here!" or when I watch our besties drive away, not knowing when I will see them again.

Yes, I have a lot of growing to do in this area.  It's my constant battle.  And as my pastor-husband said on Sunday, we are in a battle in this world!  I'm thankful for Jerry Bridges' chapter on contentment because it has encouraged my sinful yet redeemed, teary heart.

Bridges has reminded me:
  • Contentment in our bibles is actually translated sufficiency (pg 85).  My grace is sufficient for you (II Cor 12:9).  Because of God's grace, I have ALL I need to be contentment - no matter my location, provisions, or possessions.  That is SUCH good news.
  •  Discontentment is destructive and very deadly.  It was discontent that led Eve to eat the apple in the Garden of Eden.  It was discontent that led to Satan's fall - he refused to accept his position in the hierarchy of angelic beings (pg 87).  Bridges writes, "Discontent is one of the most satanic of all sins, and to indulge in it is to rebel against God just as Satan did," (pg 87).
  • God places us where we will most please Him.  "Contentment lies...in being faithful to fulfill the function that God has called us to..." (pg 92).  The Potter has the right to do whatever He pleases with the clay (Romans 9)!   I am where I am and doing what I am because God, an all-wise and all-loving Father, has deemed it best for me, and He promises to work it for my good (Romans 8:28 and Jeremiah 29:11).  And I don't even deserve to be where I am (Ephesians 3:8)!  It is a gift.
  • The secret of contentment that Paul learned: "God's grace is sufficient, whatever the circumstance," (pg 98).  
  • The grace that is sufficient and enables me to be content is expressed in two ways: "God's unmerited favor to us through Christ and God's divine assistance to us through the Holy Spirit," (pgs 98-99).
    • How then should I live contentedly?  By realizing that no matter what my situation is, it is far better than I deserve because all I deserve is God's wrath (apart from Christ).  And that no matter how frustrating or difficult our situation may be, we have God's divine assistance through the Holy Spirit to help us be content and respond to life in a godly manner (pg 99).
Additional resources to help believers grow in the area of contentment:
Luke 12:15
Hebrews 13:5
I Timothy 6:6-8
Psalm 119:36-37

I'm going to spend some time praying over these verses before my little man wakes up.  May I find my contentment in Christ alone today in this wee-little town.

P.S. My brother and sister-in-law are definitely not struggling with discontentment...they are in HAWAII! ;)
Happy Honeymooning!
Andy and Callie's photographer also finished the wedding pictures:
The Ringbearer!
When we get the real photos (these are "stolen" off the Internet), we'll send out a New Year's card...or will it be Valentine's Day?



Friday, January 6, 2012

The Post-Racial Church

When Kregel Publications offered this book as a blog tour, I jumped at the chance to read it.  Having lived in Downtown Minneapolis for three years and at Bethel University for another three, racial reconciliation was always at the forefront of topics discussed at college and church.  I always wondered if it is truly possible to have an ethnically diverse, unified church...so I started reading.

The authors answer YES to my question - and that is encouraging.

Author Kenneth A. Mathews writes the first five chapters, and I like the foundation that he creates - He begins with God.  Mathews shows very clearly from Scripture God's design for creation.  Man (all created human beings) was created in the image of God Himself (Genesis 1:27).  Once it's been established that all persons (humans) were created in God's image, Mathews goes on to show that God is carrying out his plan of salvation through even the least of them - even those who have been "marginalized or discarded by society," (pg 64).

Mathews continues to write a detailed history of the ancient nations of the bible, saturating his work in Scripture and continually demonstrating that "the racist idea that peoples were predetermined to be superior or inferior based on divine selection does not...correlate with what actually occurred in the history of Israel," (pg 79).

The other author, M. Sydney Park, continues by showing how Jesus reconciled people of difference.  She discusses Jesus and the Gentiles (the Centurion from Luke 7:1-10 and the Gentile woman from Matthew 15:21-28), Jesus and the Good Samaritan, and the parable of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32) in order to give the reason for racial reconciliation: we are called to love our neighbors as ourselves.  Park writes that this requires, "an all-inclusive position with respect to ethnic boundaries...the disciple of Christ loves the other fully regardless of race," (pg 170).

There is so much more to say - this book is so rich - but I will end with worship because that is why I was most curious about this book.  I wondered, with all the varying styles of worship music, how an ethnically diverse church would satisfy all of its members.  Park writes, "It's one thing to know that God desires all races to worship him, that his son Jesus Christ makes this possible at the cross, and that we are, regardless of race, one body in Christ.  But it's a different matter entirely to implement this.  Each church will be different," (pg 229).  Brian and I attended Bethlehem Baptist in Minneapolis when they were asking this very question, and I love that this author attended Bethlehem for a time and shares their success in implementing various styles of worship: "On some Sundays, worship was a combination of hymns and praise music; other Sundays, it was a combination of African-style music and hymns," (pg 231).  

In her conclusion, Parks discusses issues that require further attention in our modern day such as immigration, interracial marriage, multiethnic worship, and evangelism/missions.  These issues are reevaluated based on what Scripture teaches.

Racism is still very real today, even though the Jim Crow Laws are no more.  I am thankful to the authors for writing an excellent, Scripturally-sound book that speaks to how churches are supposed to respond in this post-racial era (although it's not truly post-racial).  Park concludes by encouraging churches to pursue ethnic diversity in their churches, helping people experience "the profound love of Christ that bridges all gaps and heals all wounds.  The only question that remains is this: Is it possible for all races, as members of Christ's body, to live in self-sacrificing love and mutual submission to one another?" (pg 255).

Exceptional read.  Buy it from Kregel today and praying about how the LORD may lead you to begin bridging the gap between ethnicities at your local church. 

Thursday, January 5, 2012

My Hope is Built on Nothing LESS...

than Jesus' blood and righteousness.

I've been pondering those words to an old hymn the last few days.  Where is my hope?  Not in this life.  It's in Jesus' blood and righteousness.  He has saved me from myself!  And my hope is built on nothing less.  All other things I find myself putting my hope in?  Those are lesser things.

I'm thankful for reminders like these that help focus and correct  my wandering, world-craving mind.

Happy Birthday, Dad!

January 5 is a very special day.
It is my dad's birthday.
I am so thankful to the LORD for him.
I am so thankful for all the ways my dad loves the LORD and his family.
I am so thankful for all the ways Dad sacrificed time and energy to give his children success.
I am so thankful for the ways he loves Aidan.

He is the best.
I LOVE you, Dad!
Happy birthday!

Monday, January 2, 2012

Knuckles

Aidan loves to give High Fives and Pounds.
Sean Ryan does too - he calls them Knuckles.
The boys loved to give eachother Knuckles!
Especially when they were supposed to be eating!
Then they'd clap for themselves after the Knuckles - so proud!
Knuckles again!  
Sometimes Aidan's Knuckles look like a thumbs-up.
And when Aidan's not looking?
Sean Ryan goes in for the food...
Just kidding.  Both boys were very polite and never stole eachother's food.
BUT Sean Ryan is a hobbit - for example, he ate FOUR pancakes, eggs, and grapes for breakfast.
In contrast, Aidan ate one pancake and grapes.
But then when you see them next to eachother in the tub,
Aidan's legs look a wee bit chubby next to Sean Ryan's skinny little legs...

Sunday, January 1, 2012

The Gallies!

Aidan's best buddy was here this weekend...all the way from California!
 His name is Sean Ryan and he & Aidan are only 4 weeks apart!
 Sean brought along his parents, Ryan & Kelli, our besties.
We became super close friends in California, but we all met in MN.  Ryan and Brian met in a Bethlehem Baptist bible study at Bethel College.  Then Gallaghers moved to Escondido in 2008 so Ryan could attend Wscal, and that's where Kgal and I became besties.  I miss her like crazy now that we live in Iowa, but I am so blessed by our almost-weekly phone dates.  What an absolute treat and joy it was to have them with us this weekend.
 
The boys had so much fun!

 Kgal said that when Sean plays with older boys, he always has to push them.
 He must have known that Aidan is 4 weeks younger; therefore, Aidan does the pushing.

The boys spent a lot of time playing in a Spiderman tent my parents gave Aidan for Christmas.
Aidan wasn't too sure about the tent at first; it took him awhile to warm up to the idea.
For Sean, on the otherhand, it was love at first sight:
 
 Our two days were filled with lots of chatting, playing games, and watching our boys enjoy one another:


 Kgal and her boy.
Aidan wants to join the fun!
 The guys and their boys.


 Love her!  
My heart is overflowing with thankfulness to the LORD for giving me a friend like Kgal.
And...meet Baby Gallagher #2!
Due in June.
I think it's a GIRL...

The little boys enjoyed giving one another "knuckles".  This was the last "knuckles" before the Gallies left.  So sweet.
I promised Kgal "2-3 blog posts, minimum on our visit."  More to come, Kgal!
Love you all!  And thanks SO MUCH for visiting us.
 
We think it is so amazing how the LORD provides times of refreshment through seminary friends every 6 months or so...like this summer when the Locatells and Cochrans visited.  We are so so blessed.